Palestine, Politics, Parenting, and Everything in Between
by Laila El-Haddad
Foreword by miriam cooke
Laila El-Haddad writes with passion and uncompromising honesty revealing a personal narrative that encapsulates a collective Palestinian experience.Hanan Ashrawi, Palestinian parliamentarian and member of PLO Executive Committee
In Gaza Mom: Palestine, Politics, Parenting, and Everything In Between, Laila El-Haddad takes us into the life and world of a busy Palestinian journalist who is both covering the story of Gaza and living it—very intensely. This book is El-Haddad’s self-curated choice of the best of her writings from December 2004 through July 2010. She was in Gaza City in 2005, watching hopefully as the Israelis prepared their withdrawal from the Gaza Strip. She covered the January 2006 Palestinian elections—judged ‘free and fair’ by all international monitors. But then, she watched aghast as the Israeli government, backed by the Bush administration, moved in to punish Gaza’s 1.5 million people for the way they had voted by throwing a tough siege around the Strip.
Laila El-Haddad’s writing illuminates Gaza’s inextinguishable culture of struggle and determination for a better world.Nora Barrows-Friedman, Author of In Our Power
Tensions escalated between Israel’s U.S.-backed military and the forces loyal to Gaza’s elected Hamas leadership, till the point when Israel launched a three-week all-out attack against Gaza in late 2008. During that war, El-Haddad kept in close touch with her parents, trapped in their home in midtown Gaza City.
El-Haddad was not only covering Gaza’s situation as a journalist and correspondent. She was also living them, including by trying to explain the ongoing events to her own young children. Her husband, U.S.-trained physician Yassine Daoud, is also a Palestinian but one without the (Israeli-administered) right to reside in or even enter Gaza. In 2006, El-Haddad left Gaza to be with Daoud in the U.S., but her beloved parents stayed behind. In the book she recounts the angst of a person stranded outside her homeland when it was came under intense Israeli assault at the turn of the year 2008-2009—though she was also able to publish and amplify the experiences of her parents as they cowered in central Gaza City under Israel’s harsh, 22-day bombardment.
Laila El-Haddad brings the realities of Palestinian existence to life with wit, anger, passion, love, and most of all keen eye for the cruel absurdities of life under occupation. Read it, reflect, and reconsider.Stephen Walt, Professor, Harvard University
In Gaza Mom, El-Haddad shares many intimate details of her life as a parent. We watch her young children growing up throughout the text. She also tells us about her life as a journalist and a media activist, including her involvement in the many new Palestinian-rights initiatives that emerged after Israel’s late-2008 attack on Gaza.
Gaza Mom is essentially a compilation of Laila El-Haddad’s blog posts about, as the title touts, “Palestine, parenting, and everything in between.” A Palestinian mother and journalist, El-Haddad is based in the United States but her work and extended family required her to return to Gaza frequently during the time covered in the book. Once she arrived, she often ended up stuck for several months because of the travel restrictions imposed by the Israeli government. The most efficient way to keep her husband, Yassin, a physician, posted on how their bright-eyed children were doing was to create a blog, Raising Yousuf.
Written by a heart-wrenched mother, Gaza Mom is nevertheless matter-of-fact and more than occasionally bitterly funny. The tales of El-Haddad’s day-to-day sufferings as a resident in a conflict-laden area are tough. In 2005, writing from Gaza City, she muses, “You know things ain’t right when a child has become so accustomed to warplanes that he confuses them with birds.” Sometimes there are sonic booms that shake the house. Neighborhood children are shot in the face.
Besides the horrors of war and the joys of parenting, El-Haddad also talks about her struggle to maintain a life as an independent woman within a culture that can often be restrictive. While conducting serious phone interviews with hot-button political figures, she’s breastfeeding her child or cleaning up a mess. When she touches on this juggling act in her writing, she conveys an impressive sense of ease, but also reveals, naturally, some pride in all that she has managed.
El-Haddad’s sweet anecdotes about parenting are enjoyable to read. The firsthand accounts of life in a city under siege, with a rapidly growing population and seemingly endless tensions, are gripping. This book directly points at the self-destructiveness of any kind of war. El-Haddad’s stories cut past bias and plainly show how stupid and brutal it really is out there.
–Ali Abunimah, Founder of Electronic Intifada
–Hanan Ashrawi, Palestinian parliamentarian and member, PLO Executive Committee
–Nora Barrows-Friedman, author of In Our Power
vividly illuminating the cruelties of everyday life for Palestinians living under occupation for decades. Laila El-Haddad writes with disciplined passion and conveys a powerful sense of authenticity. This book should become required reading for Americans who have yet to comprehend the prison camp conditions that prevail in Gaza.
–Richard Falk, Author of Palestine: The Legitimacy of Hope
–Sara Roy, Center for Middle Eastern Studies, Harvard University
Gaza Mom is available in Paperback ($27.99)